- Have I actually communicated what I need?
Clearly. Without expecting them to guess.
- Have I given this my full effort?
Not 50%. Not "my part." 100%.
- Am I leaving the relationship or leaving the problem?
Sometimes the problem follows you.
- What would I tell my best friend in this situation?
Be honest.
- Will I regret this in 10 years?
Future you has perspective. Listen to them.
Endings deserve the same intention as beginnings. Don't quit in the valley.